Impressionability

What happens to us molds us. The actions we choose to take in response to situations that arise are the actions by which we learn and grow. However, through all this we need to remember that we're individuals in charge of our own destinies. There is a difference between being an active participant in the process or just letting the waves push us around like jellyfish. Being impressionable means being easily influenced because of a lack of critical ability. If we are to be the ones in charge of deciding how we will react to situations and how we will let things affect us, we need to have the critical ability to determine whether we want to be impacted by external forces. This could be people, environments, or external stimuli (think commercials and little kids). We need to build the ability to be critical. To know that there is a significant amount of external stimuli to have to get through, and what we choose to do with it ultimately becomes the level to which we are active participants in the process.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Work Life Balance

Something we all struggle with. Something that can destroy families, if we let it. But how do we control it? The difference begins with the classification of work in two buckets - jobs and careers. The fact that this is a binary classification leaves plenty of room for pointing out potential gray areas, but bear with me. Those who have jobs go to work every day, do their job, then come home. They leave work at work, for the most part. Those with careers are constantly working, because the idea is that you need to do what needs to be done in order to get the work done, otherwise you won't advance in your career. So as a result, we have all these people in careers that they may or may not even like, making daily sacrifices for the sake of being able to garnish some level of success from their efforts in said careers. Is it worth it? To the young single guy, maybe. To the middle aged woman who has a family, maybe not. There comes a time when you have to decide what makes y
Read more

The How - Our Children

The future we are creating for our children seems to be a bleak one. We are so disconnected, even though social media has made it so easy for us to keep tabs on one another.   I wonder whether we are raising our children the right way - to be good people or to simply be functional adults that keep the machine moving.   Children are so perfect and innocent. The experiences we provide to children shape the adults they will become. I see so many children mistreated, not given the opportunities they should be given, and essentially set up for failure from day 1. From some of these situations children persist to become amazing adults, but should it be such a difficult journey for them?   Should there be so much adversity? In contrast, we have children who are given everything from the very beginning. Children who grow up to be entitled and self important. Selfish, and uncaring about their fellow man. You need to understand what you don't have in order to appr
Read more

Sleep

You can have the best laid plans, but they can go absolutely awry if you don't get enough sleep. Yesterday was a great example of how significant sleep can be (or lack thereof) in creating a barrier to productivity. I wear a CPAP because I have sleep apnea. For the last two days I didn't wear my CPAP mask because I was trying to determine if the new mask I was using was actually working. Turns out, it was. I had not worn the mask on Saturday night or Sunday night, so when Monday morning came around I was useless. I woke up and began my morning routine and promptly fell asleep on the couch downstairs while I was trying to drink a cup of coffee. It did not get better from there. Sleep is often the first thing we sacrifice if we have things we're trying to accomplish in a given day. Maybe it is business travel for which we end up having to get up at the crack of dawn. When I travel I like to take early flights so I can get to where I'm going and have some time
Read more